O SON OF BEING!
Ascribe not to any soul that which thou wouldst not have ascribed to thee, and say not that which thou doest not. This is My command unto thee, do thou observe it.
Baha'u'llah - The Hidden Words
This is deep. Sometimes we force challenges on our kids, our youth, our friends, our spouses, and community, that are to mature for them to digest and end up breaking them down. It is best to give up your will to let the spirit access the...ir level of maturity, give them support, encouragement designed to empower, and observe silence in areas that we still have shortcoming, or better yet, study the word of God together in order to get a handle on the battle.